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Fun Things to Do
Running out of inspiration? Here's a handful of things to do -- with your kids, or for your own procrastinating self -- to keep you informed, amused and occupied.
School Behavior Plans
Blank forms and sample behavior management plans can help parents be active participants in the process of devising a plan for their student -- or proposing a plan themselves.
Make Behavior Charts Work
Awarding points or checkmarks for jobs well done can be effective motivational tools for kids, but behavior charts are often too abstract for children with special needs. Here are some ways to make them work.
Tea Tree Oil for Head Lice
The dangers of pesticide shampoos have left parents looking for natural solutions to the problem of head lice. Tea tree oil shampoo can chase the bugs away and keep them away.
What is a 504 plan?
Information on accommodations for disabled students under Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act and the Americans with Disabilities Act.
What Is a Paraprofessional?
Learn more about the aides who help children and teachers in special education classrooms.
Do Vaccines Cause Autism?
Do vaccines cause autism? The controversy rages. Learn the pros and cons, and make up your own mind.
What Are "Special Needs"?
An explanation of the term "special needs," and a look at different children's diseases, disorders and disabilities that fall under that umbrella.
What Is BIP?
Learn more about Behavior Intervention Plans and how they can help improve your child's behavior in the classroom.
Smother Head Lice
One non-toxic way to deal with head lice is to put a substance on the head that kills lice by smothering them and also makes the nits easier to comb out. Learn how to put this plan into action.
Gluten-Free Brownies
Brownies are a delicious treat, but for kids with wheat allergies, they may be off limits. These recipes from around the Web take the wheat flour out but leave all that chocolatey goodness in.
Emergency Time-Wasters
No matter how organized the parent, there will always be times when kids need distraction and there are no books or playthings at hand. Here are 101 informal time-wasters to amuse your child when you've nothing more than your wits about you.
504 plan vs. IEP
Learn about the difference between accommodations offered under Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act and services offered through an IEP under IDEA. Both help your child with special needs survive in school, but only one will be appropriate.
Printable Reward Coupons
Whether you need an easy gift add-on, a motivational tool for behavior charts, or a quick token to mark a job well done, these printable coupons give kids those little things they really want -- or lets them make you do those little things you don't usually want to do.
Make a Textbook Cover
An early homework assignment in a lot of schools is to cover textbooks. Here's how to turn a brown paper bag into a textbook protector -- just cut, fold and (if things look a little messy) tape.
Write a Good Paragraph
Organizing thoughts into a coherent piece of writing can be hard for children with learning disabilities. Here's how to help your child write a strong five-sentence paragraph, whether for an elementary assignment or a open-ended exam.
Special-Needs Swim Gear
Children with special needs may face special challenges when it comes to water play -- from keeping ear tubes dry to finding extra-large swim diapers. Here's the gear they'll need to stay cool in the pool.
Behavior Analysis
Information on how to perform an analysis of troubling behavior and change the environment to change the child.
Sensory Integration Tools
A listing of sites that offer products to help children with sensory integration problems.
What Is FASD?
Learn more about Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and Fetal Alcohol Effects, and the many ways they can impair a child's development.
Homemade Therapy Toys
Can't afford the fancy therapy items in sensory integration and speech therapy catalogs? Make or find your own using these 20 easy suggestions.
Special Education Classrooms
Learn about the different types of classrooms special-education students may be placed in, and why each might be right -- or wrong -- for your child.
Gluten-Free Candy
Where to find lists of candies that are safe for children on a gluten-free diet
Sample Letter of Intent
If you were to die suddenly, would those left behind know all the details of your child's everyday life -- doctors, school programs, activities, medications, behavior strategies, routines? Put down all those things you handle so well in a Letter of Intent to guide your child's guardians.
Speech Therapy Games
Chances are the word games you're playing with your child are already ones that help strengthen speech and language skills. Here's how to tweak them for some impromptu speech therapy.
Allergy Alert Shirts
How do you let people know that your child has food allergies and needs to be fed carefully? Dress him or her in one of these cute T-shirts that gets the message across in a fun way.
Alphabet Soup Quiz: Special Education Edition
Test your special-education acronym acumen.
How do I get a 504 plan?
Learn how to get the accommodations offered by a 504 plan for your child with special needs.
Writing an Essay: Example 4
Example of the final step of writing an essay.
At-Home Occupational Therapy
Professional occupational therapy, at school or in a private office, can be invaluable to a child with fine motor problems. But what do you do when school's out, or the therapist is unavailable? Try these five ideas for being an at-home occupational therapist -- and keep them up even when therapy's in session to maximize your child's progress.
Improve Your Child's Behavior
From choosing realistic goals to picking your battles, here are ten strategies for making your child more manageable.
Dairy-Free Brownies
If milk or eggs are a problem for your child, you don't have to put brownies off-limits. Whip up one of these recipes that use soy milk, tofu, oil, fruit puree, and other ingrediates as substitutes for dairy products.
Pick a Student Planner
It's simple: If your child doesn't bring home information on the assignment, he or she can't do the homework. Planners are important, but what kind will work best for your student? Here are six options to consider.
Pick a 3-Ring Binder
Your child's school binder may be a wonder of organizational technology or a wreck held together by duct tape and cardboard fibers, but whatever's getting stuffed in that backpack each morning, make sure it suits your child's special needs.
What Is FAE?
Definition of Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE), with links to more information.
What Is DSI?
A definition of DSI, with links to more information.
Book Cover Step-by-Step
An early homework assignment in a lot of schools is to cover textbooks. Here's how to turn a brown paper bag into a textbook protector -- just cut and fold.
What Is IDEA?
Definition of the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, with links to more information.
What Is FBA?
Learn more about Functional Behavioral Assessments and how they can help improve your child's behavior in the classroom.
Recognizing Emotions
Identifying emotions -- in other people, and in themselves -- can be hard for children with special needs. Here are five fun ways to help your child learn what facial expressions mean, how to recognize emotions in others, and what those same emotions feel like to them.
Cutting and Self-Mutilation
Excerpt from the book "My Kind of Sad: What It's Like to Be Young and Depressed" by Kate Scowen focuses on cutting and other forms of self-mutilation in teens.
Notes for the Teacher
The best way to make sure that teachers have all the information and resources they need to work with your child is to provide those things yourself. Here are suggestions, tips and fact sheets on a variety of special needs you can copy, rewrite, print out, and send in to give your child and his or her teacher the best chance at success.
What Is an IEP?
Introduction to Individualized Education Plans.
Write an Essay
Writing a standard five-paragraph essay can be difficult for children with learning disabilities. But how to do you help without just writing the whole thing? Here's how to help your child make an outline and turn it into a well-organized paper.
Writing an Essay: Example 3
Example of the third step of creating an outline.
Make a Teacher Info Packet
You've looked at our "Preparing the School for Your Child with Special Needs" pages. Now what? Here's how to put them together with a personalized note in a package that will get the teacher's attention.
Breathing Techniques
An excerpt from "The Floppy Sleep Game Book" tells how breathing techniques can reduce anxiety and improve behavior for children with special needs.
22 Ways to Love Your Child
Inspirational ways to show your child how much you care.
Emotional Disturbance
A fact sheet from the National Dissemination Center for Children with Disabilities (NICHCY) offers the IDEA definition, incidence, characteristics, and educational implications for the classification of emotional disturbance.
Special Education Acronyms
Is your child getting a FAPE in the LRE with a BIP, OT, PT, APE, and SLP? Find your way through all those acronyms with this quick guide.
Write a Research Paper
Organizing and writing a research paper can be difficult for children with learning disabilities. But how to do you help without just writing the whole thing? Here's how to help your child make an outline and turn it into a well-structured report.
At-Home Speech Therapy
Professional speech therapy, at school or in a private office, can be invaluable to a child with speech and language problems. But what do you do when school's out, or the therapist is unvailable? Try these five ideas for being an at-home speech therapist -- and keep them up even when therapy's in session to maximize your child's progress.
DSI Resources
Start with these recommended resources for finding facts, strategies, and advice on parenting children with Dysfunction of Sensory Integration.
Charity Wristbands
Wristbands that support a cause are everywhere these days. Here are an armful for child-related charities.
CP at School
School can be a difficult place for children with cerebral palsy -- physically, socially and academically. Let the school know what your child needs to be safe and successful with these tips and printouts.
Stop School Misbehavior
School behavior problems may start small, but they're a sign that something is not working for your child. Here are five ways to fix them before they get out of control.
Summer Survival Kit
Are you ready for the summer? The absence of school is relaxing, but the lack of routine can be stressful. Help your family survive the formless school-free months with these tips for lessening risks and increasing rewards.
First Five: DSI
A handful of easy, quick suggestions to help you get a fast start on helping your child diagnosed with sensory integration problems.
At-Home SI Therapy
Occupational therapy with a Sensory Integration approach often has a strong element of parental involvement, with Mom and Dad asked to perform tasks like brushing and joint compression. There's more you can do, though, whether filling in for the therapist during school breaks or just augmenting the work being done. Here are five ways to start.
What Is RAD?
A definition of RAD, with links to more information.
Gluten-Free Christmas Cookies
Giving up gluten doesn't mean giving up Christmas cookies. Follow these links to recipes for crunchy, festive goodies that can be enjoyed even by kids on gluten-free diets.
Sugar-Free Brownies
Taking the sugar out of brownies doesn't have to make them less of a treat. These recipes from around the Web use sugar substitutes and fruit to help you keep your child in chocolate.
After the Diagnosis
Information on the next steps to take after you receive a diagnosis for your child with special needs. Includes listing of fact sheets on the First Five Things to Do for specific disabilities.
DS at School
School can be a difficult place for children with Down syndrome -- academically, behaviorally and socially. Let the school know what your child needs to be safe and successful with these tips and printouts.
"No Pants" Toilet Training
Step-by-step description of a potty training method suited to children with special needs, who may have trouble focusing on the task or sensing their need to go.
Research a Disability
The About Parenting Special Needs is full of information on specific disabilities and general behaviors and issues that apply to kids with special needs. Here's how to find the information you're looking for, and more.
MMR and Autism
The Institute of Medicine (IOM) investigated the possibility that the MMR vaccine causes autism and issued a report that has been widely reported as proving that no connections exist. But in fact, the committee called for more research on the subject. Read this FAQ from the IOM for more on its findings.
Boost Your Child's Self-Esteem
Children with special needs can be bad at feeling good about themselves. Here are five ways to boost your child's self-esteem, and make yourself a more effective parent.
Profile: DreamCatcher Blankets
Profile of an online store selling weighted blankets, started by the mother of a child with autism.
The Explosive Child
Help your child get "unstuck" from bad behavior with this calm, practical guide to reducing frustration -- yours and your child's.
Behavior ABCs
Learn how to improve your behavior management and handle specific behaviors and situations with an ABC primer listing helpful articles and books.
Emergency Behavior Chart
Most behavior charts are intended to improve your child's performance over time, or provide weekly motivators for staying in line. Sometimes, though, you need to reward behavior in the short-term. Using a chart to break down a challenging activity into small rewardable increments can make it easier for your child to get it done.
Sensory Integration at School
School can be a difficult place for children with sensory integration problems -- academically, behaviorally and socially. Let the school know what your child needs to be safe and successful with these tips and printouts.
IEP Meeting Alert Levels
What alert level do you hit before going to your child's IEP meeting? Measure your risk of outrage and deception with this handy chart.
What Are Motor Skills?
An explanation of the term "motor," with links to more information.
IEP FAQ
Frequently asked questions about the Individualized Education Plan
Set Get-able Goals
Whether setting goals for your special child, your family or yourself, thinking small and short-term can help you find big, long-lasting success.
Nurtured Heart
This excellent behavior-management approach helps focus intense, energetic kids into more positive patterns, and gives parents something to feel good about too.
What Is Speech Therapy?
A definition of speech therapy, with a link to more information.
No Wheat, No Dairy Cookies
Make Oatmeal Raisin Cookies from a recipe in "The Gak’s Snacks Allergy Cookbook: Baked Treats for All Occasions."
8 Quick Ways to Get Inspired
Parents of children with special needs all seek a little inspiration now and then ... or maybe every day. Here are eight quick ways to find it when you need it.
Before You Vaccinate
The debate rages over whether vaccines are safe and necessary for anyone, but even those who argue in favor of vaccinations admit that there are situations in which they should be withheld or given with caution. Is your child's disease or disorder on the list?
What Is ARND?
Defines the acronym ARND, describing fetal alcohol impairment.
Parenting Special Needs - QuickTips
An index of QuickTips for the Parenting Special Needs guide site.
Diabetic Christmas Cookies
Bake up some no- and low-sugar cookies to make the holidays brighter for kids and adults with diabetes.
What Is ASD?
Definition of ASD, with links to resources for getting more information.
Special-Needs School Tools
Help your child sit stiller, write better, and read easier with these cool school tools for students with learning disabilities, fine motor delays, sensory integration challenges, or a bad case of the wiggles.
Teach Me How to Say It Right
Review of a book on children's speech problems to help parents understand and help.
What Is Mosaic Down Syndrome?
A definition of Mosaic Down syndrome, with links to more information.
Autism at School
School can be a difficult place for children with autism -- academically, behaviorally and socially. Let the school know what your child needs to be safe and successful with these tips and printouts.
When July Fourth's No Fun
Picnics, parties, BBQs, fireworks bursting in air -- the Fourth of July can be a lot of fun, and a lot of stress for a child with special needs. Here's a look at the main trouble spots, and what you can do about them.
Picking the Perfect Pencil
Does your child's pencil suit his needs? Before you stock up on school supplies, be sure to pick a pencil that really works for your child.
Euthanasia and Disabilities
The case of Terri Schindler Schiavo is at heart a disability rights issue. Do people with severe cognitive or physical disabilities have rights? Should they be allowed to waive them? Should others be encouraged to do that for them? And who decides when a life no longer has value? Parents of special needs, as caretakers of the helpless and voiceless, need to make sure their children's rights are being respected. Here's a look at the issues involved.
Get an IEP for Your Child
Whether you've requested an Individualized Educational Plan for your child or have been asked to consider one by school or state personnel, these are the steps you'll go through, from initial referral through provision of services and triennial reevaluation.
FASD Resources
Start with these recommended resources for finding facts, strategies, and advice on parenting children with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder.
Is a 504 plan necessary?
Why you may want to pursue a legal document specifying the accommodations that will be given to your special-needs child rather than making agreements informally with the school.
Work Out with Your Child
Getting out of the house long enough to get some decent exercise can be hard for parents of children with special needs. These products can help you get moving right where you are -- and have fun with your child at the same time.
Writing an Essay: Example 2
Example of the second step of creating an outline.
First Five: RAD
A handful of easy, quick suggestions to help you get a fast start on helping your child diagnosed with attachment disorder.
Steps to Independence
Teach your child self-care, home-care, play and information skills with this book's patient, step-by-step instructions and helpful techniques.
Guided Relaxation
In an excerpt from "The Floppy Sleep Game Book," author Patti Teel describes a guided relaxation exercise that parents can use to relieve children's anxiety and sleeplessness.
What Is a Papoose Board?
Definition of a device used to immobilize children for medical procedures.
First Five: Tourette's
A handful of easy, quick suggestions to help you get a fast start on helping your child diagnosed with Tourette Syndrome.
Fly Calmly with Kids
Traveling with kids is hard. Traveling with kids with special needs, for whom disruptions of routine and transitions and large blocks of unstructured time can be a considerable trial, can be so very much harder. Here are five steps to take to make your flight at least a little bit smoother.
First Five: ODD
A handful of easy, quick suggestions to help you get a fast start on helping your child diagnosed with Oppositional Defiant Disorder.
How Does Your Engine Run
A quick-to-read booklet for parents introduces a unique, effective program for helping kids use sensory integration techniques to modulate their behavior and remain alert and in control.
504 FAQ
If your child doesn't qualify for an IEP (Individualized Education Plan) but still requires some accommodations and modifications to fully participate in the classroom, a 504 plan may be called for. Learn more about this tool for enforcing your child's right to a Free and Appropriate Public Education.
What Is Fine Motor?
An explanation of the term "fine motor," with a link to more information.
Special-Needs Air Travel
Before you take your child with special needs on a plane trip, consult these airline web pages for more information on their rules and services for passengers with disabilities.
Who Attends an IEP Meeting?
Description of the Child Study Team.
Summer Camp Choices
Which is best for your child -- a special needs camp, a community camp, or a summer spent at home with you? Learn the pros and cons of each, find out what questions to ask, and get started with giving your child the best summer ever.
31 Ways to Say "I Love You"
Children with special needs may be unable to respond to our declarations of love the way we'd like. Sometimes you can get the message through easier if you show rather than tell, or find fun and disarming ways to sneak your feelings through. Here are 31 ways to start.
Time-Out Spots
Looking for a place to put your kids in time-out where they're not going to enjoy being? Sending them to their room, and their stereos, cell phones and TVs, is probably out of the question. Try one of these spots for a little instant boredom.
What Is EM?
A definition of EM, with links to more information.
Find a Babysitter
Finding a babysitter you can trust with your child's special health-care or behavioral needs, even just for a night out, may seem an impossible task. Here are ten places to start your search.
RAD Resources
Start with these recommended resources for finding facts, strategies, and advice on parenting children with Reactive Attachment Disorder.
Poll: What Does July 4 Mean to You?
How do you feel about the 4th? Is it a stirring festival of patriotism or just an excuse for a three-day weekend? Take this poll and tell us all about it.
What Is SID?
A definition of SID, with links to more information.
Head Lice and School
No Nits policies aim to keep lice infestations under control, but can keep kids out of school, and parents out of work, for extended periods. This is a particular concern for kids in special education, who may miss out on needed services and therapies, suffer for lack of routine, and have a hard time tolerating head lice treatments. Is No Nits necessary, or no good?
The Essential 55
Teacher Ron Clark shares the 55 rules he uses to run his class, so that other teachers and parents can help their kids be the best.
Start a Reading Routine
Reading with your child every day helps reluctant readers improve their skills, and gives parents and kids some special one-on-one time to share together.
Learning Games
Playing games with your child not only provides you with nice together-time, but can also reinforce educational concepts.
What Is Gross Motor?
An explanation of the term "gross motor," with a link to more information.
Meaningful Magnets
Let your car show what you care about with magnetic ribbons that raise awareness of child-related causes.
Going to the Dentist
Most kids don't like going to the dentist, but children with special needs may react with particular terror and misbehavior. Tooth care is important, so try these tactics for making a dentist visit less tortuous for your child -- and for you, too.
Control Your Reactions
Your child may push your buttons, but giving big reactions to bad behavior may send the wrong message. Showing that you can control your feelings and avoid meltdowns yourself models appropriate behavior for your kids, and leaves you feeling better, too.
"Million Dollar Baby"
A look at the controversy surrounding the film, which some have accused of promoting euthanasia and unfairly depicting life with disabilities.
What Is ADD?
A definition of ADD, with links to more information.
Keep a Contact Log
Setting up a system for keeping track of the conversations you’ve had with all those case managers, specialists, therapists and administrators will make you a more organized and effective advocate for your child. Here’s how to have all those details, recommendations, promises and proposals right at your fingertips.
Lying vs. Truthiness
Is your child really lying, or just dealing in truthiness? The term used by Stephen Colbert to satirize politicians and public figures applies equally well to kids who, without malice or intent, state what they wish or believe to be true rather than what actually is.
Keep a Big 'Bag of Tricks'
Amuse. Bribe. Comfort. Distract. Having items at your fingertips that can do one of more of these things for your kids can make the difference between success and disaster. Here's how to make sure you've always got plenty of tricks up your sleeve.
Review: Speech in DS and FXS
A book aimed at professionals considers research done on speech issues for DS and FXS; ponders additional research needs; and shares some details on what works.
What Is FAPE?
Learn more about your child's right to a Free Appropriate Public Education.
Before You Pick a Pediatrician
There's more to picking a pediatrician for a child with special needs than finding the finest physician. You'll also want to think about things like how far you'll drive, how long you'll wait, and how well you'll be listened to. Learn more about the five factors you should consider before choosing your child's doctor.
Mosaic of Thought
Review of a book that attempts to learn from the strengths of good readers and apply those strategies to struggling ones.
Teach Your Child to Read
Scripted lessons for parents to use to teach children to read using a phonics-based approach.
Parenting Special Needs - User Submitted Videos
An index of User Submitted Videos for the Parenting Special Needs guide site.
What Is Early Intervention
A brief definition of the services offered for young children with special needs.
Help Your Child Sit Still
If your child's teacher constantly complains that he's out of his seat or squirming in it, suggest one of these techniques for increasing desk-chair comfort and control.
Dealing with Toxic People
You can't believe some of the things people say to you about your special-needs child or your parenting. If you can't avoid those folks who can't say anything nice, you can manage their behavior -- and yours -- more effectively.
Palliative Care
Definition of palliative care as it applies to severely ill or injured patients.
What Is OT?
A definition of occupational therapy, with a link to more information.
What Is OCD?
A definition of OCD, with a link to more information.
Nut-Free Goodies
Find safe sweets for your child who's allergic to nuts at these online retailers, run by parents and family members of children with food allergies.
You Are Loving
Artful notes of support and encouragement for parents of children with special needs, suitable for printing and framing or giving.
Writing a Research Paper: Example 1
Example of the first step of outlining a research paper.
What Is BPD?
A definition of Borderline Personality Disorder, with a link to more information.
Out-of-Sync Fun
Tons of fun ways to help regulate your child's sensory systems and have good creative family time, too.
Video: Angelman Syndrome
In a slideshow, the mother of a 4-year-old with Angelman Syndrome shares what she's learned from her daughter.
Overcoming Teen Depression
Review of a book that explains the types of and treatments for depression, and lets parents know how they can help.

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